During pregnancy, everything becomes new to pregnant women, hormone levels increase, which makes mothers be more sensitive and easier to fall into a state of stress.
1. Remove everything from your mind and you need to sleep
For women, especially sensitive women, it is absolutely not easy to do this. However, not being easy does not mean that you do not have to do it. You have to train yourself to think only of the present moment rather than thinking about the far future/the things that are too far. Finance have not been enough. Your husband does not seem to worry much for you and your baby.You worry about who will take care of you and your baby when you give birth. You worry about who will take over your tasks in your company when you are on maternity leave for 4 months. Let’s throw all these stuffs out of your head. Sleep!
As long as you maintain your sleep, you achieve a great success in reducing stress. Reassure myself that “everything has been cleverly arranged by the Creator or in the end everything will be fine … “. You should think that you need to sleep now. Try to think like that and you will be successful. If you have a sound sleep, your health will be better.
2. Do not require and don’t be a perfectionist
During pregnancy, you and your unborn baby are what need to be put on top. About all the rest, do not concern and require too much. Remind yourself that you have plenty of time (after birth) to complete them! For example, you can postpone a course or learn only moderately (rather than try your effort to achieve highest results as desired).
Housework is too. Your husband can help you do it although he can’t do it well. Yes, so what? It’s not time for you to require things to be done perfectly because it makes you more stressful and tired. The nine-month pregnancy is the time you should be “easy-going” with things who do not affect you much. A little compromise, a little skip or a little easygoing will give yourself a fresh and happy pregnancy!
3. Don’t keep unhappy things in your mind
The life of anyone with sad jokes. You no exception! However, during pregnancy, do not be suppressed keep anything inside. Speaking out – that is the word “magic” that you need to remember. Speaking out will help pregnant women feel comfortable and more pleasant.
The easiest way is tell your thoughts to your husband. However, if you find it difficult to confide to your husband, you can talk to your close friend, your sisters, your mother and your psychologist or your friends in the online communities or anyone that you want. Especially, you should ask oncologists about issues such baby’s health or birth process. All these worries will become very small and not enough to make you stress when you know how to say them.
4. Nutrients and practice
Daily diet as well as regular practice and gentle movement will directly affect you psychology. If you see a pregnant woman be very relaxed and happy, please remember that it is not natural when she looks like that. You need to pay attention to your diet. Eat sufficiently; Complement all kinds of grains (rich in vitamin B) because this vitamin helps the body be capable of reducing stress
Doing exercise is also a good way to help you relieve the psychological inhibition in the nine-month period of pregnancy. Two kinds of exercise which is easy for most pregnant women are swimming and walking slowly. When you do exercise, your body will increase the flexibility of muscles, and you also see your psychology more comfortable and less stressful.
5. Allow yourself to enjoy life!
You are implementing a wonderful mission. It’s to pregnant and to give birth to a little angel! Therefore, there is no reason for you to sit dolefully and tiredly like that at all. Life has some stuffs as unexpected. Yes, but so what? Everything will be over and it will be better up!During this time, you let yourself enjoy life.
Laugh more; eat the food you like; always give yourself moments to relax, watch comedies, and listen to music; travel if you have economic conditions; try going to the spa to get a massage if you do not dare to spend on these “luxurious” items … That’s the way for you to enjoy your life. Even if you do not have much money, you should allow yourself to eat your favorite foods, allow yourself to forget the household chores. You should not work indefatigably from morning to night. These are ways for you to enjoy your life effectively. Discover all that and you will suddenly discover that everything is fine and there is nothing to make you stressful.
6. Prepare something for your unborn babies
Finally, carefully preparing for childbirth makes you overcome anxiety. Let look for hospital and go shopping early. You can go to antenatal classes for more knowledge. Like in any job, if you complete all assigned work before the deadline, you will find yourself become cavalier and relaxed. However, if you do all things at the end period of pregnancy, you will be busy and will feel everything be messed and you will feel stress more.
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